Dr Jan Clarke is a top sexual health consultant. She ran the “patient and public panel” for the British Association for Sexual Health and HIV (BASHH) for years. She says:
“You should use condoms [with a new partner] to protect yourself in future. Had you used one last time, there would have been less chances of your getting herpes simplex now.”
and
“Discussing this with your partner allows you to work together to prevent transmission – if this is what you both want”